I am told I complain a lot. Whine, lament, moan and groan. It may be true, although I don’t notice it. Still, if I do complain it isn’t without clear intent. I usually want to improve things and most often, I am willing to be a participant in the improvement process.
But I think others don’t listen long enough or carefully enough because they don’t get the whole message behind the complaint. I think maybe I have to change the vintage of the whine