10 things that just aren’t worth the energy and aggravation many of us give them.
- Forcing Your Help – You cannot force anyone to get help or to take the help you offer. Don’t bother helping people who do not want to be helped.
- Not Forgiving – The anger you keep around will only bring you down. It will not change the other person.
- Lost Relationships – If you feel no love, no connection and no happiness with your partner it may be time to let the relationship go. Some relationships are not worth saving.
- Road Rage – I mean, when was it ever worth your time to be mad at someone on the road? What has that ever done for you?
- Keeping Toxic People Around – No, they do not change. No, it will not be like before. No, you cannot help them out. Move on and find people that improve your life.
- Anger on Social Media – It’s interesting how many curse words are used online simply when people disagree with someone’s opinion.
- People Pleasing – No matter what you do the person will remain unhappy not because of what you did, but because their outside world is not what is causing them to be unhappy; it’s what’s going on inside.
- Obsessive TV watching – The immediate gratification you get right now is absolutely outclassed by what you could have done instead with that time. But you already know that looking back.
- Worrying over something that hasn’t happened yet – It rarely turns out the way you expect it to and if it does you couldn’t change it anyway, so why bother worrying about it before the moment comes to pass?
- Worrying over something that is already long passed – The situation is gone, it’s done, you can’t change it anymore. Let it go! Use your time for better things than fantasizing about what you would do differently; it only wastes your time in the moment.
