Take care of your thoughts when alone and your words when with people.
Powerful huh? Humans tend to brood in their own negativity – STOP IT! Make a concerted effort to think about your ‘private time’ thoughts and work on making them positive. This is the time you should be dreaming about great future plans and loved ones.
Similarly when you speak to others, by only talking about negative issues and gossiping, you are actually pushing people away from you. Like a magnet, in real life, like attracts like. Who are you attracting in your life?